Friday, January 01, 2010

It isn't just death we have to grieve. It's life. It's loss. It's change. ( and Love)












Lexie: [narrating] Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone.





Mark: It isn't just death we have to grieve. It's life. It's loss. It's change.




Alex: And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad. The thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime.




Izzie: That's how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can't breathe, that's how you survive.




Derek: By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won't feel this way. It won't hurt this much.




Bailey: Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way.

Owen: So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty.




Meredith: The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can't control it.




Arizona: The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes.




Callie: And let it go when we can.




Meredith: The very worst part is that the minute you think you're past it, it starts all over again.

Cristina: And always, every time, it takes your breath away.




Meredith: There are five stages of grief. They look different on all of us, but there are always five.



Alex: Denial.

Derek: Anger.



Bailey: Bargaining.



Lexie: Depression.



Richard: Acceptance".




(Grey's Anatomy Insider  Season 6 episode 2. "Goodbye" )


Thanks Mary


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And LOVE...even if it is not unrequited, we grieve. Cause sometimes in our lives even the greatest LOVE ... is not enough.

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